Now, since this is my platform I’m going to possibly rub some people the wrong way because of my opinions. However, I could give a shit honestly. With that being said, I hate giving head…yep I said it, I HATE IT!!! To me it just feels like another job or role I have to play in a relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I have had moments where I’ve enjoyed giving it, but those are far and few.
I understand that some people absolutely love it…and shouts out to y’all!!! Despite me not liking it, I damn sure know what I’m doing when I’m down there. I remember having a conversation with a few of my friends about how to make it more interesting. We also got into the topic of what drives a man crazy when it comes to getting his dick sucked. So I decided to drop a few gems on how to give amazing head.
These tips aren’t just made up by me, I did my research and these are some of the most common among both men and women. By all means try one, all of them, or none…what you do is up to you. Also remember, these little tips are not meant for everyone…communication is the key so ask your bae to tell you what he likes.
Look Up
There is something so sexy about watching a man lose all control because of me. When you look up and connect eyes with him it really sets them over the edge. I’m not saying sit there and stare…that’s weird and awkward. However, a little playful glance builds the intensity for what is to come next.
Spit On It
There is nothing worse than a dry dick….and that ain’t sexy at all! That slip and slide makes your man feel great. You also wouldn’t want sore or chaffy feeling. Spit is not the only way to keep things slippery…there are multiple lubes (flavored if necessary) to keep the party going. I suggest going water-based, works better with condoms….safety first!!!!
Get Comfortable
Another reason I am not fond of giving head is because, well the shit hurts my neck. There are multiple positions to give head…him standing up, sitting down, laying down, 69 I could go on. Take good care of your neck and your knees, those are the first things to give me a hard time. Just a bit of insight…laying on your side doing 69 can cause some relief.
Don’t Use Your Teeth
So remember when I said there is nothing worse than a dry dick??? I lied…using your teeth during giving head is worse. The best thing to do is to curl your lips slightly over your teeth and put the penis in your mouth. Yes, you will have to make a conscious effort to be careful with the teeth…but I promise practice makes perfect.
Don’t Forget About Those Balls
Remember those things…hanging in the back, you usually notice them when they’re slapping your ass…give those some love. Again, communication is the key…ask before you just start exploring. Once you get the go ahead lick, suck, jiggle, tug…whatever will make his eyes roll. Just think of them as a bonus feature.
Do It With a Smile
Your partner can tell if your not into giving him head. If you cannot do it with a smile…you might want to wait until your in the mood. Everything goes back to communication, express why your not in that space and promise to make it up later.
Now these are only a few tips, there are multiple ways to give a damn good blow job.
Leave your tips below…let me know how you keep you blow jobs spicy.
~Natasha Chentille
